Wow. That's an awful lot you're dealing with. You are incredible to be even holding it together at all.

I think you should inform your husband of your diagnosis.

I couldn't quite follow what you relate about the houses. How does your husband have the authority to order you out of your home? It doesn't sound like you feel cared about by this man. That has roots in stuff back before the blood clot.

I strongly recommend you sit down with an attorney. Not to begin divorce proceedings, but to have a clearer idea of your rights and how to protect them. You really need help and sound advice from a source you can trust. Money may be a problem, but that can make a lawyer even more essential.

Keep all your doctor appointments. Your daughter should also be informed of your health issues.