Hi, I don’t have Aspd and neither does my SO (significant other) but I’ve been labelled (probably wrongly) with bpd by one provider. It wasn’t even an official diagnosis. The “official” diagnosis was panic disorder and “avoidant pd” .. although I’ve been told by more than one person online I don’t have avoidant pd because I am not always quiet and withdrawn. I’ve worked hard not to always be quiet and withdrawn..

I read in a book on “avoidant pd” something like they are “incapable” of having “close relationships” - nice.. not. I don’t “fit” the description in that book at all Although I didn’t finish the book as I didn’t find it particularly helpful

It’s sad how some perfectly “good” people and people who are trying to be “good” or “acceptable” to “society” whatever that may be..are so heavily stigmatised because of “diagnosis” - some of which aren’t even accurate.

Hugs if ok