I think you DO need to modify your actions. If people are responding to you to the extent you are suggesting then that indicates a very real problem of inappropriate behaviour - which you must take responsibility for.

We each have a responsibility for our actions. The end does not always justify the means. Every action has a reaction equal to it. If you are behaving outrageously for example then expect a correspondingly big reaction. It is a safe assumption that if people are reacting so fiercely to you that it is on account of inappropriate behaviour. Cause and effect. It is quite simple really. If you don't want people flying off the handle at you then you need to adjust your behaviour accordingly. There is nothing immoral about this at all. If anything is questionably immoral that is possibly your own behaviour and not theirs.