My T likes me. I know because he has said so, and because of his general manner. Also he offered to reduce my fee by a lot when I was unemployed. He doesn't extend sessions, offer outside contact, or make "daring" jokes (I'm not sure what this means).

I don't know if that's countertransference though? I think it's possible he just likes me as a person, without being reminded of his mother or sister or something.