Hello ricky: Thank you for sharing your concern here on PC. I don't think there is anything in particular I can offer with regard to it. However I see this is your first post. So... welcome to Psych Central.

One additional forum, here on PC, that may be of interest to you would be the relationships & communication forum. Here's a link:

https://psychcentralforums.com/relat...communication/

And then here are links to 3 articles, from Psych Central's archives, that offer suggestions for supporting a spouse or other loved one who has a mental illness:

15 Ways To Support a Loved One with Serious Mental Illness

10 Tips for Supporting Your Spouse During Mental Illness

When Mental Illness Strikes: Tips for Couples

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.