Thanks Iliovar. Now that Unaluna pointed out what probably happened with Tapatalk and Atisketatasket has responded, I will not contact the member directly. Though I do not agree with your point that politely drawing a line with someone is the same as being confrontational. There is a difference between being proactive and being aggressive. Though on a faceless online forum, everything is quite different from the offline world which is why I asked the question.

And we don't tell people why they are on Ignore lists because there is no need. Different strokes for different folks. It's not a punishment or judgment. DocJohn and the mods have been very clear about that