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Originally Posted by Little Cat
Having read your posts, it sounds like you need counselling to help you deal with this process. Or life coaching, whichever seems best. But start with another person who is there to listen to and advise you, who is a professional. Then see a primary care physician and explain how you feel physically. Have some blood tests, find out what your health is and see if you need any meds. You are looking for external validation for your suspicions about your mother and you won't find that on here. If she won't agree to see a physician or a lawyer to sign power of attorney, then this can be done in her absence if she is diagnosed as incapable. But take care of yourself first, so you have the strength to deal with this. Good luck.
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Thanks for your reply, I guess in this time and age everyone is struggling and needs some help.
The issue here cannot be dealt with anyone else other than the parties involved: my mother, myself and all who have wronged me. In my opinion, sitting with someone and talking about it and maybe ending up with some meds, will not help me at all, because who wronged me will stay doing what they do: hurting me, and talking to them will not help, it is better talking to a brick wall, at least the wall will not do the opposite of what you ask! This relates to the situation, as explained in my post, I did find an unorthodox method in dealing with it, I am happy with it, I am feel well mentally and physically, I do good exercise in the morning and sometimes at the evening as well, it can reach more than 4 hours a day. My spirits is up! The members who wronged me, do not understand what is coming and don't know what I am doing or what I am preparing, they said that I am in too deep and need professional help, this was not said to me but to themselves, I managed to overhear them. I have others who know exactly what I am doing and they said I am on the right track. But I always like to get more feedback, so basically, if someone has the ability and encouragement to do exercise about 4 hours daily and the person's spirits is up!, would that person in urgent need of mental help?