I don’t think it’s that. I think that many men and women lack insight, ability to reflect and basic observation skills. They just don’t know what they are looking at: basic courtesy or a meaningful connection.

I’ve met women who thought a man is about to propose when he just wanted booty call or maybe not even that and he was clear and honest about it. And they still thought he is about to buy a ring. when people are desperate for love, they become blind to common sense and are in complete denial of what’s really going on.

Desperation is a sure way to a disaster. And it happens to the best of us. Men and women. Clarity escapes us when we only see what we want to see because we want something so badly.