Don't know about inpatient, but google "Compassion Focused Therapy." It's all about learning to rewire our brains to have more self compassion and to learn to self soothe, for people who never, for whatever reason, learned that skill as a child.
I found it very helpful in learning mood regulation.
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"I danced in the morning when the world was begun. I danced in the moon and the stars and the sun". From my favourite hymn.
"If you see the wonder in a fairy tale, you can take the future even if you fail." Abba