It seems like you've dodged a bullet there, gabaee21. At least he showed his true colors before things got too far! Allow yourself to grieve this relationship. I'm sure you'll be able to move on from this bad experience sooner than you think. I'm not sure whether or not he was a narcissist, but he certainly was emotionally abusive to you and that's enough in my opinion to decide whether or not he's a good mad. It's good that you're acknowledging his flawst. Next time, when you'll see someone elese doing those same things, you'll know that you have to RUN! :eek Be kind to yourself and give it time. I'm REALLY HAPPY that you're seing a therapist as well. Sending many safe, warm hugs to you, @gabaee21!