It's very hard for me to find a good bra too. I just bought one in the right size, fits well, except the lace is so irritating. The one I used to have isn't there. What's with all this extra lace? Just thinking out loud. They are expensive, and non returnable, I wish a woman who knows large breasts need both underwire support and comfortable straps, no padding etc. would create one. I stick with one brand, but when finances are low...
I'll end up wearing the same 3 or 4 for years. I put them in the wash but hang to dry.