The sickness of some sponsors makes me wanna vomit. Worst part I still have to see this person...I will not talk to her. There is nothing to talk about. I will pray for her and everyone she sponsors. The amount of dependence some sponsors want on them rather than helping a sponsee find a HP(I already had from being in AA this sponsor I met in a different 12 step program) is really unnerving. Thanks to my HP I got the hell out before that damage was too great. Thanks also to my AA sponsor who helped me find an HP and made clear he didn't want to be it. Setting a very clear example of how sponsorship really works. Oh and is entirely willing to make amends if he finds it necessary or is brought to his attention.