You have to devote a lot of your time and money to get some stupid approval. I assume its a boring process and there might be some consequences of this.
If you enjoy talking about this, you can talk here (I like to read about this stuff).

Just be the person you want to be and dont look for labels. If you think being a psychopath is benefical in some situations, then think about yourself as a psychopath in these situations.

If you think being good,nice person is benefical in some situation then think about yourself as a good,nice person in these situations.

Just be more flexible, be what is the best for you, what makes you feel good in certain situations etc.

This my logic guys, thats it XD