Hello MomofBipolarChild: Thank you for bringing your concern here to PC... and welcome to Psych Central.

I'm not one of the members here on PC you're looking for. But hopefully there will be other members who are who will reply. In the meantime, I've gone a bit overboard & given you links to a baker's dozen articles, from Psych Central's archives. Hopefully some of the information in these can be of some help:

Bipolar Disorder: Symptoms, Types & Treatments | Psych Central

Symptoms of Childhood Bipolar Disorder

What's the Difference Between Bipolar and ADHD in Children and Teens?

Treatment of ADHD in Children | Psych Central

ADHD Treatment in Children & Teens | Psych Central

https://psychcentral.com/lib/adhd-be...dium=popular17

https://psychcentral.com/lib/parenti...llenges/?all=1

https://psychcentral.com/lib/adhd-ki...dium=popular17

https://psychcentral.com/lib/setting...dium=popular17

https://psychcentral.com/blog/9-sure...dium=popular17

https://psychcentral.com/blog/8-ways...eed-in-school/

https://psychcentral.com/lib/motivat...dium=popular17

https://psychcentral.com/blog/how-to...ental-illness/

I hope you find PC to be of benefit.

P.S. One additional possible resource I'm aware of, based in Minneapolis, MN, is The PACER Center. Here's a link to their website's mental health section:

https://www.pacer.org/cmh/