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Originally Posted by continuosly blue
There’s no reason, I believe , that even without a sexual drive a woman cannot “ take care “ of her man just to at least keep him happy and the marriage going !
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Once either spouse begins to perceive intimacy as a chore, it's only a matter of time before both parties begin to resent each other.
That being said, there's a psychological aspect to sex and intimacy that can be enjoyed, but that takes a considerable amount of skill and a willingness to explore new and exciting activities. Like BDSM. Personally, I get off more on watching my partners squirm than I do from anything else.
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Most women are robotic when it comes to sex anyway , I’m talking about how many times they “ fake “ orgasm or the whole thing altogether when they are not in the “ mood “.
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Have you tried engaging them in sex instead of just worrying about your needs getting taken care of?