Hello 90210fanforever: I see this is your first post here on PC. So... welcome to Psych Central.
There's a blog, here on PC, that may be of interest to you. Not all of the articles in this blog will be relevant. But I think if you scroll through the listing you may find some that are. Here's a link to it:
Sex and Intimacy | Sex, porn addiction and intimacy in relationships in a digital age
I hope you find PC to be of interest.