All have to do with the fear of the uknown situation,the unexpected and inexperience,i personally don't know how to attract a girl,how to express my emotions or show that i am interesting,i fear the rejection or will say something will sound too stupid.There is an easy way,to use social media such as facebook with a fake profile firstly,post some generic photos of you and try to make some friends list of known and uknown people,start talking,ask slowly for a dating maybe.A second thought,ok,the wrong way but still result it counts,go find a callgirl,cheap escort teen and make just a start,lose virginity firstly,then try level up with gaining som basic sex experience,the more you do the more you want again,this will give you self confidence.

It's a basic plan into my mind but still i'm far away to start with it,seems to be a basic solution to escape with emptyness,loneliness and lack of sex life.