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Lilly2
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Heart Nov 08, 2019 at 11:31 AM
 
I thought prince charming was supposed to find us, not the other way around? --Just kidding.

In this day and age, we all need to be proactive in finding a mate. I choose to be asexual, but for those who are not, there are many opportunities to find potential mates. I'm 45 y/o, so there was this notion of "playing the field" (not being a player, but not having all your eggs in one basket either; you date, see whom you like, and then pick one to take the relationship to the next level - that is, if the potential mate feels the same way).

You can start out by simply looking for friendships (not even dating yet), and keeping potentials in the "friend zone" until you find one who might be a good match. Men can do this, too.

I like the suggestions that the others have made as well. Because I'm asexual, I don't have much to offer other than what I've overheard from people.

I do like a good fairytale though.

If you wind up having a fairytale wedding, please let us know! That would be so cool to hear!
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