I think a lot of the healthy interpersonal relationships is that everyone I know is not so healthy themselves! It’s not JUST me who has issues. I can’t really think of one person I know who doesn’t have some issues, too. Therefore, the relationships are never totally healthy. They are good enough, mostly. Some were too toxic to continue- yet these people are all functioning, highly educated, intelligent people. The whole world is kinda off the charts IMHO.