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Default Jan 14, 2020 at 02:32 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Open Eyes View Post
Your friend is having a problem with rejection. She needs to work with a therapist to find out where this comes from in her. Her choosing to lash out at these other individuals will never fix or heal what is in her that brings these resentments on. Her choosing to try and ruin or cause pain etc will just end up causing her to be rejected even more. Unfortunately, if she is a narcissist, she probably won't be receptive to actually healing instead of engaging in lashing out.
I agree. I know she is not narcissistic since she doesn’t have many traits of it, other than anger issues, but yeah she definitely has problems with rejection. Yes, I do too. I have been hurt so many times I basically expect it now. And it still hurts when people treat me poorly like I’m a piece of dirt. But I would never lash out and try to seek revenge on others.
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