I like the way you address this issue. I'm also taking some time to sort through things alone. It's a constsnt worry about not achieving enough and your life passing you by, but I can tell you that 30 was the point in my life where I had learned enough to solve most practical problems (like leaky plumbing) and get some things done more easily than in my 20s. That's the one advantage of getting older. My life is a mess right now and I'm trying to figure out what to do. Your post does make me feel a bit encouraged. Thanks for sharing.