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Originally Posted by Twitch99
Can you help what you find attractive? Even if by society's standards it's not right? I'm not talking about acting on it.
What if you talk to other like minded people who have the same desires as you? Does that make it wrong, or does it become wrong when you act on it?
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You can't control what you find attractive. It's been tried with conversion therapy, but it was never really successful.
It's far easier to just accept what you feel and choose not to act on it. You might even learn to act against your baser instincts.
Talking to other people is, technically, an action. As such, it can and often does have consequences. Lying, encouraging harmful behavior, making threats, bribing, etc. are some examples of generally frowned upon ways of talking to others. Discussing these thoughts might encourage them and make them more frequent, but they also might be a way to learn to accept that you have them without acting on them. It really depends.