I get it too, something happened on another forum which made some of us feel more unwell. Thanks BirdDancer for bringing this up. I also see the other side of it though re my other post in this thread. (more rules and restrictions can feel punitive in some cases for some of us who genuinely try to be supportive.). I hope I haven’t said anything “wrong” I personally wouldn’t ever have thought of starting a personal journal thread in an open forum. (and much less carrying it on for pages) (no matter how many others there were).I understand the worry the situation could get out of “control” though. Hugs and respect I agree with all those who appreciate you BirdDancer