I called my mom this morning. I had some good news to share with her. She wasn't very nice or supportive about it. Then she said she got a text form M and had to go to see what he wanted. It made me feel like I wasn't important enough to have a conversation with. She has done this before. Many times. And if it's not a text from M, it's that her grandchild wants to play games on her phone. Again, another indication that a conversation with me just doesn't matter. It fuels my worthless feelings. I just want to quit calling her.
My online T suggests I set boundaries. But I have tried that in the past, and my mom just gets angry. So I guess I just need to stay away from her. It's obvious she doesn't care about me.
Have you experienced something similar? What do you do?