Not sure I will tell EMDR this or not. One of the things that Inam steuggling with is that when I started seeing T in her home office things really changed. I felt more comfortable with her and I think the transferance really kicked into high gear...it was always there but it went off the charts to be in her home. Then when she sold her home and went back to the rented space I had a lot of fears of her leaving and no longer working. 😭
So now being in Emdr Ts home is really different but I can't explain it. I have fears that she will realize how much she loves being home with her son and will decide to continue having such restricted availability or stop working all together.