I have taken a small red stress ball, a pen, and post card. I was going to take a small rock, but she had not given me the opportunity to do so before the this all started. I took the stress ball in Feb, start of March. Pen and post card last year or so. Over the 6 years she has given me things, a shell, a river rock, and a warm comfy blanket. I think I sometimes get mad at her and decide to take things, as a way to deal with feellings. Teenage thing.