I want to start by saying I love my wife dearly and I would do anything at all possible for her but she is making it very hard to keep it my life together. I have defended her multiple times before had her side on everything even if I have not agreed with her but I did what is right and stayed by her side with it. I have kept her side through it all and stood up for her to my family and hers but she will not do the same for me, she can clearly see I am struggling and the situation is really hurting me but she does nothing to help me, what should I do?