Not trivialize or sound callous, but I dated several men who believed or at least told me that I was their best friend and love of their lives, and after I left them continued pursued me begging me to come back BUT it didn’t mean they were right matches for me or that I had to come back and be with them. Not at all. You gotta do what you gotta do.

Plus talk is cheap. He doesn’t really behave like you are his best friend at all. I sure never yell or cuss at my friends or say F you to them. And he needs to stop getting take outs and start saving for paying you back what he owes. He does say a lot of things. His words don’t match his actions.