70 percent of a childs disorder comes from bad parenting. Bad role modeling and neglect. My child struggles it's genetic. He has several disorders. We are not neglectful or bad role models. We do have our issues too. We have spent his whole life trying to teach him skills to help navigate the world. We've built a support team for him. We each have our own support team. We have been told by everyone we're good parents. It's just he was dealt a bad hand. I think the majority of parents are trying.