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Originally Posted by NewlyAlone
It sounds like you're already cold towards her which makes sense from how she's acting. I've never personally felt children should be the reason people stay together. I think it shows more of a dysfunctional life than how productive a life could be with 2 happy, albeit separate, parents. Wishing you strength and sending hugs and love your way.
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Thank you so much for the reply. On a logical level I know that two separate parents who aren't always fighting is better than staying together for the child. However it's like my mind sabotages this idea and says "well you guys don't really *fight* much, there's just little to no emotion and it's like being roommates...and we parent OK together, maybe I should just suck it up and deal." It's bad thinking that I've been trying to fight through to take action.