Thread: How do I forgive my adult sisters?
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Cdogger76
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Default Sep 02, 2020 at 06:40 PM
 
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Originally Posted by MoxieDoxie View Post
I never forgave my bully sister for the misery she caused me. I went zero contact with her 25 years ago and it was the best thing I ever did. I do not have to forgive her or have her in my life just because she is my sister. I am not God and it is not my job to forgive her. That is his job.
Thank you, MoxieDoxie for your post 25 years is a long time for no contact with your sister, but if your happy today then it was worth it! We have to put ourselves first.

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