I can totally relate to that. My sister beat me up and bullied me until I left home after high school. It was a regular occurrence and my parents blamed me for being a sissy and not standing up to her. She is still a bully. I have tried to limit my interactions with her to just Christmas and Easter, and this is for my parents. I can never forget what she has done to me and I am sure she would like to do it again. I don’t want to do much with her.