It's hard enough to admit that you're different from others, but how do you reconcile it?

I don't fit in with straight cisgender people and I don't fit in with LGBT people because I'm not out enough (as in dating someone who isn't straight/cis and/or actively transitioning and/or pushing for the correct pronouns etc.). I don't want to fight that fight. I don't have allies and I don't feel up to a me against the world scenario.

So how do you accept being different and not get lonely when you're not like anybody else?