It’s tough @sarahsweets My dad periodically makes nasty comments about people. Yes there’ve been confrontations over the years. Now when he is old, it’s pointless. I don’t participate in discussions anymore, I change topics, play “grey rock” and move on. In ideal world people would change their ways. In this world, I am not sure. I think we still should educate people and I try to do so when I can but not when they get too old