My husband was diagnosed with bipolar before we met. I thought I knew what I was getting myself into since we had been friends before even dating.

He takes his meds. He goes to therapy (until they make him mad and he has to find a new one).

I’m now starting to suspect he’s just a jerk. He blames BP for everything. He can’t do anything around the house because his BP makes it so he can’t see what needs to be done. And I’m insensitive for suggesting otherwise.

Here’s the kicker. He can tell other people to do the things that he “doesn’t see” like empty the trash, out the dishes away, vacuum. But his claims are that BP prevents him from understanding that these things need to be done and should be done by him.

So frustrated.