American culture has been taking a worrying trend towards cruelty really even before Trump. Some people I think feel powerless over their lives and the people who are really the ones making their lives suck are either hidden from them or just seem to powerful to bring down or are held up as in fact the people we are supposed to aspire to. The only people they have to direct their frustrations on then are people that have no power and often are unable to defend themselves. I’m sorry that things are so tough for you now. There will be a world on the other side of all this we have even seen a few glimpses of it I would argue and it might not be so bad.