I sometimes feel maybe I not a priority in her life. I have bought her some nice things that make her happy. I truly love her and want to spend the rest of my life with her. She was previously married and in a abusive relationship towards her and her lovely children which I care for too. Is it often that woman with ADHD don't think about do simple thinks that would make the other person happy in the relationship. Should bring up this subject with her. I don't want to lose her.