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Originally Posted by Omers
I had a lot of bad therapy experiences before finding my current T. Honestly, I think having had previous poor experiences (even if they were OK but not productive) makes therapy take longer when you do find a good T. My T has had to fix and change a lot of things from old T’s.
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I totally agree. While I didn't have a bad therapist I had a horrible painful ending. Current T and I spent many sessions dealing with the grief and loss since long term Ts death. Plus it has taken time to adjust how the loss changed the dynamics of our relationship. It took work to go from her being being the therapist I worked with soley for trauma work and all of us knowing T would always be my primary T, to current T being my only T it required a whole new level of trust for me.