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Old 03-28-2019, 12:11 AM #1
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She took her heart medication but I feel like that's not enough and she's going to go into heart arrythmias.

My sister is being mean to her and now my mom is crying. My sister says it's my mom's fault for having a bad knee because she went skiing anyways when the doctor told her not to. I said skiing is fun but then my sister said that then she can't go skiing in the future because she messed up her knee even worse.. fair enough.

My mom says "My daughter hates me". It's my mom's fault for getting drunk so I can't help her and feel sorry for her and her bad life decisions that she's lonely and doesn't have a man because her children aren't enough for her. She put "Her man" first before her children.

My sister is very smart. I don't know how she thinks the way she does but it's not the way that I think. My sister is very responsible and I'm not. My mom isn't responsible when she's drunk. She still takes her heart medication after she goes skiing and says "If I die, I died on the ski hill happy" like wtf? I don't understand this life..

My mom wanted her CBD oil that she brought in the door and I took it back to the car and went with my sister to get tissues. She was calling me to bring it back. I came in the door and she said "Did I bring my CBD oil back?" and I said no.. She didn't even remember that I put it in the car.. I said that it would make her heart beat fast but she doesn't care.

This is really sad and my mom is like a happy severely depressed inside person and it doesn't make sense to me.

Edit: She went to bed and my sister and I gave her hugs and she was still crying saying she has a heart condition and her boss doesn't care and the doctors don't care because she's non-compliant and one day she's going to die and she wants to plan a holiday now but she can't.

I asked my mom is she going to be ok in her sleep because she drank another glass of wine, took an ativan and then started drinking the wine again so I poured the wine down the drain. She said she'll be fine.
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She's going to go skiing with my sister in the morning. I'm going to study tonight and then go to class in the morning.

I feel like this is my fault but really some things are her fault for allowing my sociopathic narcissistic abusive step dad to be in my life. I allowed everything to happen. I did so many drugs to try and make myself stupid and unaware of my own life, throwing it away, getting hospitalized like 15 times. My mom had to deal with that too and I'm sorry for that but she needs to stop drinking and she's going to drink again.

She says she doesn't want to drink and she'll stop but she drinks a bottle of wine every night or more.

She WONT admit that she has a problem so I can't get her professional help. When she's sober, she has it all together like no one else. She's a completely different person when she's drunk just like my alcoholic real dad that I love very much but he's going to die soon and doesn't care if he dies soon.
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You cant help your mother stop drinking and you are not responsible for her happiness. None of it is your fault.
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She has a heart condition though. It's not like she's going to die in 20 years of liver failure. She could die right now.

Today was another party. This woman (Friend of my moms) was severely slurring her words and my mom said "You're taking the same drugs I'm taking" I hope she wasn't taking benzos while being piss drunk but w/e my mom is drunk too and had the hiccups so she drank water up side down and I thought.. yep.. this is the end she will pass out and die cuz her heart condition and my mom has been saying she was having heart palpitations and the other woman is an alcoholic idk why my mom gave her more wine. My mom was worried that she was hallucinating.

They were talking about how this guy loves my mom and he has a wife and my mom and her drunk friend kept talking about everything in secret except they were shouting. I'm sick of this ********. My mom is supposed to go to the US this year to meet some guy on the internet.

This has turned into the most ridiculous ****ing thing ever. My mom said she needs to go to the hospital and I had to talk her into not having another glass of wine. Now she says she's going to sleep and doesn't need to go to the hospital. I knew this would happen.

She's probably going to take ativan but w/e I don't know how to handle this and my sister isn't helping me she's with her bf.I've had to deal with this **** all my teenage life. My brother left and I still have to deal with it.

My sister is crying because the cats went outside but I think it's because she doesn't know how to deal with what has happened.

My mom snuck a bottle of wine into her room and I had to take it away from her again. It's like she expected me to do that because she says to my sister that I have taken care of it. It's like she wants me to feel guilty if she dies because she has taken care of me by bringing me to the hospital 15 times and taking away my drugs multiple times. If I knew how hard it was for her to that based on what I'm doing now, I would have quit using multiple drugs (like 20 at the same time) earlier.

So now she's going to bed and she better wake up the next morning..
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I'm not going skiing with them in the morning. When my mom wakes me up, I'm going to say "What you did last night was ****ed up and it's going to happen again and you'll be drunk on the ski hill again like last time".

Her friend has bipolar and I said I was depressed today (Probably because I knew this was going to happen again) and she said to talk to her so she did. All she did was talk about herself and say I'm hot and will make a girl happy some day. How ****ing shallow is that? Idk if she has a good heart or whatever since she says that guy (that is in "love" with my mom) and his wife and son are her family because her parents disowned her for being "A drunk" so idk.. I have mixed feelings about this but I know she's a bad influence on my mom so I'm going to protect my mom and not talk to her anymore.

I'm not going to tell my mom that I'm not going skiing in the morning right now because then she'll be awake all night and have heart palpitations.
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And her friend said that she was going home right after my mom said she was going to bed right after she said she was going to the hospital. What a complete ****ing *.
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I was overreacting with these people. They are ok. Just my mom needs to not drink so much.
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I'm sick of this ****ing ********. My mom said she was too drunk so I poured my her wine down the drain and she continued to drink out of the wine glass with the man she's flirting with. He has a wife.

She pulls him into her room so she can talk to him about drama and they're all talking in secret again and it's ****ing pissing me off!

Her drunk friend is manic again because she had too much to drink and she says "You're all my family, blablabla"

My sister is talking to them. My mom said that they kissed and he's leaving his wife. He took me hiking today to get my approval. I'm really sick of this ********.

My mom is saying that she's having problems with her heart but I don't care. I just want to die.
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My mom doesn't are about me. She never put her children first. Most of what she's doing is her fault. Her drinking isn't. She's tripping in the hallways.

I don't care anymore.
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Probably she needs to go to a desintoxication clinic, and remove this alcoholism,
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