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Default Jul 28, 2019 at 10:52 AM
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Hello,
I don't have NPD/ASPD as far as I am aware. I was raised in a family with a lot of it going on however.
It's a topic I have a lot of interest in as a result.

I read an article here at psychcentral on NPD/ASPD which was disgusting frankly.
The author clearly had a hatred for men. And the intent of the article was to lambast men rather than to inform the public about these mental health conditions.
The authors bottom line was - narcissism is the root of all evil, and narcissists are pretty much all men.

How was such a hateful and misguided blog post allowed on what's supposed to be a mental health forum?
I posted a comment asking the author how they thought this was any way acceptable - I wasn't rude or breaking any rules.
It wasn't published.
I have sent an email to support questioning whether this article should be allowed. No response.

After reading that vile blog and several other ridiculous blogs on narcissistic and anti-social personality disorders.
I no longer trust this website or it's intentions.

Here is the blog I refer to:
12 Ways Narcissists or Sociopaths Reveal a Pathological Intent to Harm

And here is a segment of the message I tried to post, containing what I felt was seriously wrong with the blog,
If you feel the same way I do, contact support and ask them what the hell they are playing at.
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A few things that you said which were completely biased against men: (the whole article pretty much)

*where a child is in danger sexually and physically, there is a good ole boys network of traumatized men, in which traumatized women may also participate wittingly or unwittingly,

*It's a set up for abuse of all vulnerable populations, in addition to women, children, "weak" or gay men, nonwhites, and among others, even the elderly and handicapped

*From boyhood, men learn to be on guard, know they are being watched carefully by men as well women, to make sure they prove they are men by exhibiting traits of rigid masculine gender roles, aggression and control, and in particular no remorse for depriving the woman in their life of feeling valued and fully human

*They view concept such as soulmates or partnership relations as bait to trap women. To them, it’s nonsense or 'emotional craziness' associated with the 'weaker' sex. Every 'real' man is supposed to only need sex, a form of love that is manly and it's his job to 'fix' her so that she only serves as a extension of what pleases and doesn't threaten him!

*Narcissists do not see their partner, or women in general, as human beings

* they always view a partner's attempts to gain their cooperation as a dangerous ploy women use to subjugate and turn men into women.

*Narcissists have also studied women as a group (as well as other groups they deem weak) in order to use words and for bait-and-switch traps for them. It's easy. Most women love to talk, and engage in taking turns talking about self with friends a lot.

*Narcissists also make direct strikes where they know a partner has been most wounded in childhood or a past relationship. For example, it’s common for narcissists to 'force' a partner to have sex against her will, despite that she revealed her experience of being sexually abused as a child

*In their worldview, narcissists regard women as objects for the pleasure and comfort of men...... Remember they've studied women, and learn to speak their 'emotional connection,'soulmate,'partnership' lingo,

*Narcissists have honed skills of dominance, practiced them with men from boyhood, perhaps also in the military. They believe women are less than human, and it's men's jobs to domesticate them, like animals, i.e., horses, to keep their place

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You frequently use the term Misogyny to describe general mal-intent and disdain for human existence. - That is not misogyny. Nor is it even Narcissism. You seem to use hatred and / hatred of women interchangeably, which is a total distortion of facts.
You refer to 'they' (narcissists) interchangeably with 'men' time and time again.
Appalling,.
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Why is this hateful content hosted on this site? Is anyone moderating these blogs by self purported experts?
Unbelievable. No wonder the personality forums are a ghost town if that's how this place is run.
This author is clearly very hateful, against men in particular - my guess she's had personal dealings with male narcissist so she created this blog as a means to vent her personal feelings. -> Fine, people can vent all they like on blogs.... i suppose. However, this blog is published by; Psychcentral - which is a mental health forum where people come to understand mental health issues. Not to listen to a hateful, un-factual representation of a mental health illness.

The blog isn't even spelled correctly.... and well - it's clearly written by someone in the height of an emotional episode, without any oversight or insight.
How did this get published?

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