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Grand Member
Member Since Jul 2018
Location: United States
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Jan 22, 2019 at 05:57 PM
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Have you ever gotten close to someone they tell you they love you then later they act like they are not your friend? This makes me upset mad and sometimes anxious.I have had this kind of thing happen to me many a times and it gets to be old.I would never tell anyone I loved them if I didnt mean it so why do they have to lie to me?Are they just using me? Or do they really care at all? Sometimes I have a very hard time trusting people.Just this past year I thought my neighbor was my friend what a joke she is nothing but a liar and a trouble maker believe me when I see her outside this summer I am not going to have any conversations with her I trusted this woman,If she says hi I will say hi but that is all.She lied to me about everything why should we have to put up with that?
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Member Since Dec 2018
Location: New Jersey
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Jan 23, 2019 at 12:33 PM
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Part of the problem I think is that people throw the word 'love' around too much. Everybody loves this or that. I only say it when I mean it. I will not allow myself to be controlled by a fair-weather friend. The other thing I had to learn was that I teach people how to treat me. If I am treated poorly but do not address it, or change the dynamics of the friendship then I am letting it happen.
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Grand Magnate
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Location: Spain ( the land of flowers and gladness, lol!)
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Jan 24, 2019 at 03:31 PM
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They are fake. That or they have a psychological issue and close themselves up bc of some kind of fear.
Either way, you need none of them at all. Better far away. Words come easy but acts are more real. __________________ Social Anxiety and Depression. Cluster C traits. Trying to improve my English. My apologies for errors and mistakes in advance. Mankind is complex: Make deserts blossom and lakes die. ( GIL SCOTT-HERSON) |
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