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Default Oct 12, 2019 at 05:11 PM
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A friend of mine just passed away about a week ago and now I am feeling so anxious and spooked she lived right next door to me.You could hear noise coming out of her apt but ever since she has died I have been feeling scared and afraid and of course anxious too,Is this normal I feel so wound up, having trouble sleeping she was only 57 and had cancer,this makes me sick.
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while I've not directly experienced anxiety after someone's death, I can sort of understand why you might be anxious.

if you were that close and could hear stuff from her apartment every day, it must feel weird/ and lonely not having it their
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We weren't all that close I mean I did talk to her I guess it bothers me because I feel like she is haunting me if u know what I mean.If I see her ghost I am going to scream.I hear noises right now coming out of there I guess they can hear me yelling nothing is being said .they havent banged on my walls yet.Sometimes when I am anxious I tend to yell like today when my water heater was running I yelled at it to shut off I suddenly had a panic attack my legs got all shaky and I could feel a tingle in them and all of a sudden I starting crying yes I have depression and bipolar .ugh what a life.I am feeling lonely today too.I feel so bad she passed away her name was never in the paper the land lady came by yesterday to tell me of her passing but I just acted dumb like I didnt know I dont want her to think I gossip she does and I cannot stand her.57 is way to young to die but my husband died when he was only 51 so.
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We weren't all that close I mean I did talk to her I guess it bothers me because I feel like she is haunting me if u know what I mean.If I see her ghost I am going to scream.I hear noises right now coming out of there I guess they can hear me yelling nothing is being said .they havent banged on my walls yet.Sometimes when I am anxious I tend to yell like today when my water heater was running I yelled at it to shut off I suddenly had a panic attack my legs got all shaky and I could feel a tingle in them and all of a sudden I starting crying yes I have depression and bipolar .ugh what a life.I am feeling lonely today too.I feel so bad she passed away her name was never in the paper the land lady came by yesterday to tell me of her passing but I just acted dumb like I didnt know I dont want her to think I gossip she does and I cannot stand her.57 is way to young to die but my husband died when he was only 51 so.


do you think that the noises coming from their could be people in their who are getting her stuff?

I am sure that before she died she left some instructions with what to do with her property

plus: people eventually need to get it ready for someone new to move their
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That is what I think,i cannot believe that she has been gone over a week already.Still is spooky every single time I hear banging and other stuff going on,I can hear then opening there cupboards well at least that is what it sounds like.She had this red afghan I made for her I hope they give it to someone who could use it.I feel sorry for her mom who is in a nursing home .Linda use to go there every single day to visit her even though her mom couldnt talk.HOw do you tell a parent they lost a child I dont think I could ever handle it if something happened to my kids and grandkids.
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