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A friend of mine just passed away about a week ago and now I am feeling so anxious and spooked she lived right next door to me.You could hear noise coming out of her apt but ever since she has died I have been feeling scared and afraid and of course anxious too,Is this normal I feel so wound up, having trouble sleeping she was only 57 and had cancer,this makes me sick.
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while I've not directly experienced anxiety after someone's death, I can sort of understand why you might be anxious.
if you were that close and could hear stuff from her apartment every day, it must feel weird/ and lonely not having it their |
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We weren't all that close I mean I did talk to her I guess it bothers me because I feel like she is haunting me if u know what I mean.If I see her ghost I am going to scream.I hear noises right now coming out of there I guess they can hear me yelling nothing is being said .they havent banged on my walls yet.Sometimes when I am anxious I tend to yell like today when my water heater was running I yelled at it to shut off I suddenly had a panic attack my legs got all shaky and I could feel a tingle in them and all of a sudden I starting crying yes I have depression and bipolar .ugh what a life.I am feeling lonely today too.I feel so bad she passed away her name was never in the paper the land lady came by yesterday to tell me of her passing but I just acted dumb like I didnt know I dont want her to think I gossip she does and I cannot stand her.57 is way to young to die but my husband died when he was only 51 so.
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do you think that the noises coming from their could be people in their who are getting her stuff? I am sure that before she died she left some instructions with what to do with her property plus: people eventually need to get it ready for someone new to move their |
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That is what I think,i cannot believe that she has been gone over a week already.Still is spooky every single time I hear banging and other stuff going on,I can hear then opening there cupboards well at least that is what it sounds like.She had this red afghan I made for her I hope they give it to someone who could use it.I feel sorry for her mom who is in a nursing home .Linda use to go there every single day to visit her even though her mom couldnt talk.HOw do you tell a parent they lost a child I dont think I could ever handle it if something happened to my kids and grandkids.
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