I’m Already struggling With :Loneliness/anxiety then “some friend” does this #hurt

TalisManicScene · 07:13 PM

Hello, my life at the moment is so messed up.. my best friend of 11 years or so, she’s also my sister in law. I actually met her before I started dating her brother , haha. Anyways, we used to be so close and lately she’s been showing a side of her that I never seen before, she just has been in a relationship for almost a year now and he is no sunshine and rainbows kind of guy were checking in on he she was always upset with him and she still can’t find the strength to leave him. She would not answer our calls and when we noticed when she didn’t answer our calls ,we or myself took it upon myself message her bf to ask him to tell her to check in.That’s it, just a friendly check in and so I started noticing she was being more rude to me and talking more nonsense. like, she just started accusing me of stuff I would never do and it hurt my feelings a lot and I do get a little bit jealous when brother and sister go take time away to vent and all I have is nobody really and having to sit at home and re play those words, just sucked so much. doesn’t help that her bf is telling her lies about what I had said which was just telling him to get her to call us back when she had the time I never tried being unfaithful to my partner. this one night she comes over and I hear her yelling about same old problems with her bf and I go outside for a smoke and I can hear her from inside my place calling me down saying I slept with him , when I wouldn’t do that. not ever. I got fed up with her thinking she can come in my home and be disrespectful to me in my own place and I had enough of just being the one who name always got bashed for no reason so I came inside i just asked her. your still talking this nonsense? She didn’t answer so I go in my room then she comes storming in my room and by the time I realize she was behind me

Possible trigger:

she goes ahead and suckers me in the eye!

I was stunned , at the fact she would really do that. The fight stopped just as fast as it happened. Then follows a screaming match between us. She left right away and you know the one who just got hit was hoping my bf would have stayed but he went with her for awhile . Then all those feelings of being lonely and depressed all came in like a tital wave coming to shore.. I’ve never been so hurt in my life over something I never did and I just thought she would have known me by now that I wouldn’t do that to her in my life!!. It was hard for me the next couple days just trying to get over the fact it has been done and I don’t think I can ever accept an apology from her i told her one day she’s going to figure out that I was right and if she tries to give an apology It just wouldn’t be worth it because of all the emotional damage she has inflicted upon me and my partner. Anyways, I had to let this all out because I’m tired of just holding this in and acting like everything is okay.

Thank you , for taking the time to read this.

Raindropvampire · Oct 05, 2020 at 12:01 AM

I'm so sorry for how your friend/SIL is acting. It sounds like she's very unhappy in her relationship and is taking it out on you. Totally not right nor fair to you. Very sorry for what you are going through

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