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Default Feb 07, 2015 at 08:26 AM
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I hope mods don't move the thread for not being conected with AvPD.
I always loved off tópics threads bc they may start with a topic and end them up with a very different one.

You also can find people who are interested in the same topic as you.
So, please, feel free to express whatever you want to put out there.

At this moment, I'm thinking in a present I will get for my birthday, a guitar.
And I also thinking that I don't like very much to see my nickname in the most of the threads in the forum. I'm a bit embarrassed.

BLANKSLATE, here you are your thread.
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Default Feb 07, 2015 at 02:53 PM
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now i am curious as to what nickname people use to call you in the forums that embarrasses you. i am a good one for shortening peoples names, mainly because 1. i am lazy 2. i have a bad memory and forget what i am typing and going back to lazy i dont want to scroll alll the way down to see how to spell their name again. but i need to know if people find this offensive so i can make more of an effort to use their full names. most people call me kali and i have no problem with that. it actually stikes me weird when i see kaliope, like why is someone being so formal with me? lol

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Default Feb 07, 2015 at 05:04 PM
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Hola, Kali! Lol!
I also like to shortening nicknames, names, calling people each time in a different way as well. I see it as something carefull and funny. I don't know if they are offended, i hope they don't.
Call me, Az if you please!
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Don't know you but when I have affection towards someone, I use the name of the person preceding by possessive pronoun "my". I must be very possessive. Lol!
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it is weird because here i dont mind if people shorten my name but in real life i get totally weirded out if people shorten my name. it is like how dare the be so intimate with me. it totally creeps me out.

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My boss shortens my name. Boo! I don't mind. She is another calling names like me and I know she does it with carefull bc for her position in the school I see myself obligaded to share with her my depression problems and she cares of me.
Then, there are few people who shorten my name but they are very close so I don't feel this fear.
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AvLady is avoiding to write in the thread.

There are some calling names that I don't like at all. I'm not sure in English bc it doesn't sound so bad but in Spanish there are some words similar to dude that get the hell out of me.
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Guys, I encourage you to write in this thread.

I'm thinking that today, it's a marvellous Sunday morning and that I will try to enjoy it as much as possible. It's not worthy filling your life with bad feeling.

Enjoy yourself!

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it actually stikes me weird when i see kaliope, like why is someone being so formal with me? lol
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I'm drinking a coffee during my break in school and thinking time sets everybody in his/her place.

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Default Apr 24, 2015 at 09:45 AM
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I think life stinks but you never ever have to feel defeted bc each person has in his/her inner the potential to face to bad moments. Someone taught me to be an optimistic person, my partner, and someone taught me that a depression is an opportunite to learn and solve problems in your life.

Please, don't let the avoidant label stop you to take advantages of the good moments in life. You can control it.
I know how hard is for people with avoidant personality disorder feelingrejection and being judge. Don't let this stop you. You have the strenght in yourself, it's only that you don't know it. Bc your head tells you that you don't decerve being happy. It's your mind the one who plays bad games.

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