advertisement
Reply
Thread Tools Display Modes
mulan
Poohbah
 
mulan's Avatar
mulan May it all be ok someday
 
Member Since: Mar 2013
Location: Europe
Posts: 1,046
10 yr Member
3,220 hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Jun 06, 2018 at 03:07 PM
  #1
I feel so ashamed! I want people to understand me, to be kind to me and to support me, but as I start to write I want to give up.

Work and avoidant personality disorder are just too hard. I am not sure I can do it. People notice I am odd and then there's no escape. And I imagine only bad opinions/harsh opinions on me for the future. Yes because I have avoided responsabilities, I don't know how to deal with them.
I will be thought as the lazy one and everyone will hate me.

And if not as the lazy one at least as the arrogant one who doesn't speak and choses to be alone. I can't deal with both feelings.
mulan is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
Fuzzybear

advertisement
Ylba
Member
Ylba has no updates.
 
Member Since: Apr 2018
Location: US
Posts: 118
5 yr Member
Default Jun 06, 2018 at 03:48 PM
  #2
Sorry you're going through that. Are you seeing a therapist?
Quote:
Originally Posted by mulan View Post
I feel so ashamed! I want people to understand me, to be kind to me and to support me, but as I start to write I want to give up.

Work and avoidant personality disorder are just too hard. I am not sure I can do it. People notice I am odd and then there's no escape. And I imagine only bad opinions/harsh opinions on me for the future. Yes because I have avoided responsabilities, I don't know how to deal with them.
I will be thought as the lazy one and everyone will hate me.

And if not as the lazy one at least as the arrogant one who doesn't speak and choses to be alone. I can't deal with both feelings.
Ylba is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
 
Hugs from:
mulan
realizer
Member
realizer has no updates.
 
Member Since: Apr 2011
Location: Israel
Posts: 87
10 yr Member
1 hugs
given
Default Jun 26, 2018 at 03:32 AM
  #3
Have you tried disability benefits option?
realizer is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Ylba
Member
Ylba has no updates.
 
Member Since: Apr 2018
Location: US
Posts: 118
5 yr Member
Default Jun 26, 2018 at 03:38 AM
  #4
Look into cognitive behavioral therapy. It can help you challenge some of that negative thinking.
Ylba is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
Fuzzybear
Wisest Elder Ever
 
Fuzzybear's Avatar
Fuzzybear has no updates.
 
Member Since: Nov 2002
Location: Cave.
Posts: 96,298 (SuperPoster!)
20 yr Member
81.2k hugs
given
PC PoohBah!
Default Jun 26, 2018 at 11:08 AM
  #5
((((((( Mulan ))))))))

I suppose that some people who enjoy judging others may judge/label you and many others as odd.. I wonder why they don’t look inside themselves instead. Nobody is perfect, especially those morons who enjoy putting others down ..

__________________
Fuzzybear is offline   Reply With QuoteReply With Quote
All times are GMT -5. The time now is 06:32 AM.
Powered by vBulletin® — Copyright © 2000 - 2024, Jelsoft Enterprises Ltd.



 

My Support Forums

My Support Forums is the online community that was originally begun as the Psych Central Forums in 2001. It now runs as an independent self-help support group community for mental health, personality, and psychological issues and is overseen by a group of dedicated, caring volunteers from around the world.

 

Helplines and Lifelines

The material on this site is for informational purposes only, and is not a substitute for medical advice, diagnosis or treatment provided by a qualified health care provider.

Always consult your doctor or mental health professional before trying anything you read here.