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Default Jan 16, 2015 at 01:15 PM
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with the activity still in the thread "why don't we want to shower?", thought i'd bring this thread back up to the top

still think it can get a lot of replies..
 
 
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Default Jan 17, 2015 at 09:12 PM
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I don't really understand why everyone hates taking showers so much-my shower is the highlight of my day! I could spend hours in there, daydreaming, with the warm water trickling down my back... haha. I could understand how it might be difficult to summon the energy to shower if you were depressed, but if you have the energy to buy hair dye, get excited about dying your hair, etc., then I'm guessing that you're not depressed?

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I hate having showers but once I am in there it is amazing, I don't seem to learn that showers are great. I have to wash my hair daily or I feel dirty haha.

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Default Jan 20, 2015 at 09:15 AM
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It seems to me just one of the things we can get away with.
I just cant be bothered.
If I know im going to be close to other people then I will take a shower.
But I can go for weeks without taking one.
I have not cleaned my teeth more than a dozen times in the last ten years so my dentist sent me to hospital to have a full dental clearance.
No more teeth so I don't have to clean them.
I don't change my cloths very often and I often sleep in them over and over again.
All this sounds really gross. but I just find it so hard to motivate myself.

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Default Jan 24, 2015 at 08:31 PM
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I'm not in a place today that I have to celebrate a shower, but I it makes me feel less alone to know that someone (other than the people I pay) can celebrate that accomplishment on those days. High five to all who struggled but made it to the shower; hugs and hope for tomorrow for those who tried but it just didn't happen.

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well I struggle getting in there too. But once I feel that hot water then it is heaven!
This past month I have been going to the gym and then sweating and taking a shower the next day before work. but if I don't sweat then I don't take a shower.
I don't like to sweat, because then I have to take a shower.....
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Default Apr 03, 2015 at 04:00 AM
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I didn't take a shower today. That's my Bipolar Success Story.
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haven't washed my hair in 3 days. hm.
 
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Default Apr 03, 2015 at 06:58 AM
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I haven't washed my head over one month. It's not that I don't want to wash my head. It's because there is no public bath room in the neighborhood. Nobody here makes business by purely selling warm bath. If you want to buy a bath, you need to rent a hotel or house, thant's quite expensive, far more expensive than eating every day.

I desire to see the government can build public bath rooms everywhere so that even poor people who can't afford to rent a house can also take a warm bath every day.
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This is silly small success, but honestly this was not easy for me. I wanted to sleep all day. I only went from my pajamas to my robe, but at least I did take a shower!
I understand I haven't gotten out of bed yet.
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Default Sep 28, 2015 at 10:35 AM
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I have a horrible time taking a shower and brushing my teeth. But I always feel better once it's completed. I love feeling clean and smelling good. But it's so hard for me to think of the end goal when I need to take a shower. It's been about a week since my last shower. The longest I've ever gone is 14 days...I never left the house when that happened. I get so depressed and just don't care.

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Showered last night and had a good sleep (thank you, Geodon!)...but got sweaty during sleep so I'm feeling dirty already. I need to shower today. I'll report back...
 
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Default Oct 04, 2015 at 10:35 PM
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Me too! I'm in need of one myself, and I bought hair dye over a month ago thinking that would get me moving and feeling better about myself. It's still sitting on the washing machine. I spend my days in pj's or yoga pants, and I've never done yoga. The only benefit to staying in bed all the time is not getting super stanky. I used to spend hours reading in the tub (my cave) and shower almost every day. I don't want my kids to see me like this...it would scare them.
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Default Oct 05, 2015 at 05:16 AM
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I completely understand this,... sometimes getting into the shower feels like the biggest chore possible, even though I want to be clean and smell nice. I don't understand why it's so tough, even though I'm not (supposedly) depressed. yeah right....
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I washed half my body today but yesterday I washed all. I'm trying to do better.

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I went walking so I made myself take a bath.

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Default Nov 08, 2015 at 09:55 PM
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I was making dinner, looking forward to having a shower tonight
Me - looking forward to it????
I had one too!!

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Default Nov 09, 2015 at 05:13 AM
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Other people shower daily, but I find it a huge chore.
Getting all wet and cold (cant have heating on all the time too expensive) towels soggy.
Why do l find it so hard to bother.
I suppose its all about self worth, dunno.
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I showered yesterday, and hope to tomorrow.

Sometimes even when I am happy, i am sad.
 
 
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Default Nov 09, 2015 at 12:35 PM
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I'm trying to shower twice a week and having some success with it. I showered this morning, but for a sad reason. I took my cat to the vet and he had to be put down.

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