[Wild Coyote]

A warm hello to All!

Just checking in. Have been reading here. Thought I would sign in and say hello.

I am going through a very bizarre separation/divorce. It all came about rather suddenly when I had discovered my H was/is leading an entirely different life, one I have not known about... and one I cannot imagine living along with him, thankfully.

I threw him out 3 weeks ago with just the shirt on his back, his meds and his car keys. While that may not seem like enough, it is much more than he deserves at this point. Believe me. (He is living with his parents for now.)

I have made more and more discoveries almost every day throughout the past 3 weeks. I am in shock and very baffled. He shows no remorse at all. None.

This is not the guy I had married and had lived with for the past 27 years. I do not know who he is; I am repulsed by him. Even so, I have to deal with him because our finances and our property are intertwined. I have been working on changing that as quickly as possible... it will not happen soon enough.

What a shocker! What a nightmare!

I am exhausted from a lack of sleep and from trying to cope with the revelations each day for the past 3 weeks. Just when I think there cannot possibly be more, there is a lot more.

I have been seeing my pdoc every week. She has been adjusting my meds again due to the stress involved.

I was given Seroquel. I believe the Seroquel is causing a lot of hunger...I usually lose weight in these types of circumstances.; this time, I am gaining weight quite quickly.

I have a few autoimmune medical conditions. Each one has been flaring due to the stress.

I hope you can understand why I might not be here as often as I would like to be here, at least for now.

I wish each and every one of you the very best!

Love to ALL!

[downandlonely]

@Wild Coyote I am sorry about your husband. Thanks for checking in.

[tecomsin]

I'm really sorry to read this WC.

[Victoria'smom]

Sorry to hear that WC.

[Moose72]

WC- you will come through this! Please keep in touch.

[Moose72]

Been reading my new liver cleansing book. I only stopped reading because its getting dark.

[~Christina]

Originally Posted by Wild Coyote

A warm hello to All!


Just checking in. Have been reading here. Thought I would sign in and say hello.


I am going through a very bizarre separation/divorce. It all came about rather suddenly when I had discovered my H was/is leading an entirely different life, one I have not known about... and one I cannot imagine living along with him, thankfully.


I threw him out 3 weeks ago with just the shirt on his back, his meds and his car keys. While that may not seem like enough, it is much more than he deserves at this point. Believe me. (He is living with his parents for now.)


I have made more and more discoveries almost every day throughout the past 3 weeks. I am in shock and very baffled. He shows no remorse at all. None.


This is not the guy I had married and had lived with for the past 27 years. I do not know who he is; I am repulsed by him. Even so, I have to deal with him because our finances and our property are intertwined. I have been working on changing that as quickly as possible... it will not happen soon enough.


What a shocker! What a nightmare!


I am exhausted from a lack of sleep and from trying to cope with the revelations each day for the past 3 weeks. Just when I think there cannot possibly be more, there is a lot more.


I have been seeing my pdoc every week. She has been adjusting my meds again due to the stress involved.


I was given Seroquel. I believe the Seroquel is causing a lot of hunger...I usually lose weight in these types of circumstances.; this time, I am gaining weight quite quickly.


I have a few autoimmune medical conditions. Each one has been flaring due to the stress.


I hope you can understand why I might not be here as often as I would like to be here, at least for now.


I wish each and every one of you the very best!


Love to ALL!

Each day I am more shocked. I’m glad your seeing your Pdoc weekly you need that support ....more now than ever.

Always thinking of you daily.

Much love and hugs.

[sadveiledbride]

I am feeling a bit tired and low, but feel a bit better than I did previously a couple of hours ago.

[wildflowerchild25]

WC I am so sorry to read this! I hope you know what a great friend you e always been to me, and to all of us here on PC. We are here for you! You will get through this. I’m glad you’re seeing your pdoc weekly. We all love you here! Please don’t feel obligated to post, but do feel free to stop by when you can. Good luck with everything, I hope you can get everything resolved quickly so you can begin to move on and heal.

Sorry to hear that, WC. That is so unfair. You deserve better.

I hope you’re able to get things situated quickly. Best wishes and remember to take care of yourself.

[wildflowerchild25]

Im doing much better. I had another dream about being forced to go to the hospital but I didn’t self harm in it so it didn’t trigger me. Now I’m just stressing about my big project due this week. It’s due next Monday but I need to get it done by Friday because I’m moving this weekend and won’t have WiFi until the following Tuesday.

Yes I’m moving this weekend! We’ve got a lot of stuff set up already. I’m so excited! I’m going to have a housewarming party in July. Our first party in our new home! So happy.

I also applied for a teaching job. It’s actually at my old job. I’m not sure they’ll take me back after the way I resigned but we will see. They might. I was a good teacher. I’m holding my breath waiting for a call.

@Wild Coyote, I'm thinking of you wishing you strength during this terribly rough time. We are all here for you when you need us. We care!

[Innerzone]

Oh, WC!!!! My heart breaks for you! Having to discover awful things, especially of someone you have known so long -- what a terrible, terrible ordeal. I'm so very, very sorry you're having to deal with this. I hope things go as smoothly as possible navigating through it. We are always here for you, dear, sweet WC.

[hopeless2015]

Oh WC, I'm so sorry!! Please keep us updated when you can. Thinking of you and hugs!!!

[sadveiledbride]

Feeling very low today because of an appointment I have and am anxious for it. I woke up pretty early, which makes me wonder if I should start going to sleep earlier. Seems like a good idea, anyway. Other than my anxiety I'm okay, I guess.

[Wild Coyote]

Thanks everyone for your support!
You all mean a lot to me!
Much Love to all!

[tecomsin]

WC, the sense of betrayal would be overwhelming to me. I am so sorry you are going through this.

[MsSunflower]

I'm been feeling pretty down. I guess I keep saying all the wrong things because I feel like everyone is mad at me. I don't mean to upset people but I guess I don't think before I speak and right now I'm having a hard time thinking. I'm just trying to enjoying being alone right now and not worry too much. I finally got an email from the volunteer coordinator today for the job I applied for back in March. They finally have enough people to get started and we're having a meeting to go over the details sometime this week. Hope you all are well.

[Unrigged64072835]

So sorry you were betrayed like that, WC. I do hope you have clear resolution and in time you can put this behind you.

[Moose72]

Today was a total wipe out. Im writing from my partner's bed breathing in the cool air from outside. I feel half relaxed and half blah for being a total slug today. I slept way too much and fet bad from it but I still want to sleep. Reading "the liver diet" but it seems so daunting.