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I have a car repair I will be needing to pay for ASAP once I hear back what is wrong. I have spent all my savings so far except $280 to fix it! I tried for a loan and wasn’t approved. I’m tying for a loan somewhere else. I should heAr something today hopefully. My aunt told me to apply for a small credit card to hopefully cover it instead of loan just In case! I was approved for $500 credit limit which I should get the card within a week. Lord I’ve gotta get this resolved ASAP so I can safely drive my car for my new job I start in two weeks.
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Cars can indeed be bummers, especially in areas where you have no choice but to use them. I hope the upcoming fix is a very minor one for you.
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Did I mention my uncle is going to hospice today??
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Sorry to hear about your uncle, Hallie. I know firsthand how difficult it is to have a loved one go into hospice. Remember to take good care of yourself and don't be afraid to reach out for help if you need it.
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HI Halliebeth, I am sorry you are feeling a bit overwhelmed, yet it is totally understandable. I remember when I did not have enough money for things like car repairs. It was very stressful. I hope this works out for you with ease. I am sorry about your uncle. Must be sad for you? We are here for you!
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I usually use cashnetusa when I need some emergency money. have you looked into them ? sorry about your uncle also, that must be a difficult thing to have to experience.
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I came home tonight and found my granny had falls. And been laying there for a four hours. I feel horrible I wasn’t home! I called EMS and we got her up and she is not hurt.
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Oh AND the guy I was getting to know just wants me to sleep with him im pretty sure!
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Ouch. You're having a fun of bad luck. Sorry Halliebeth. I'm glad Granny is ok. That must have been very scary for you both. I'm also sorry the guy tuned out to be that way. It is good you are able to see it before things went too far. You want that experience to be special and not to feel like you're being used.
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I'm glad your grandmother was not hurt. I can only imagine how scary that was to see.
Also, I'm sorry to hear about that guy who just wants to bed you. I've had friends who've had great luck with online dating and dating apps, and some friends, not so much. It's very hit or miss, but it can be very rewarding when you find "the one." Not sure what app you're using, but I've had 2 friends in college who had met their now spouses on OKC. One moved to D.C. to live with him, and another is now living in NYC. They're still married from what I can tell. But in truth, they both went through a few "bad apples" before they found "the one." They said their first negative experiences helped them realize what they wanted and helped hem figure out how to navigate dating sites better. So, I hope you are not too down about wasting time with this guy. I'm sure your (negative) experiences with him will help you navigate the future, even if it may not seem that way right now. |
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It's better to find companionship with people you have something in common with. Take a class. Volunteer. Join a church group. Get involved in a political campaign. Join a book group. Join a walking club. There are all kinds of options that are healthy and don't put you in the path of having to talk about your mental health issues.
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