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Grrrr. How would talking about a skin allergy be ''endearing''. I was simply trying to talk as people are supposed to do in therapy and since my allergies were so severe and also linked to trauma it seemed like something I needed to talk about? Then I was told by my therapist that I am not ''endearing''
ok... he is not ''a well person'' …. He did ask if I had had ''nappy rash'' as a baby though I don't think I did although I was ''potty trained'' at the age of one. ETA do I really need to delete this? Am I really such a ''bad paws'' I am fairly sure the parental units are ''**** retentive'' - I have a good friend who fits that profile so I do not have anything against anyone who has those tendencies, but with Narcissism in parental units it is not ideal. I need to do some research so I don't sound completely ''stupid'' Wait a minute. I am NOT stupid @bpcyclist I posted in the check in thread re your position in dermatology, then I posted here since it reminded me of the mean T and my attempt to communicate with him re my distress that ''eczema'' had caused me … sudden severe onset at the age of 20. Grrrrreat introduction to ''adulthood'' : (I rarely if ever share this ) (no need to respond … I don't always get to read all the check in posts though. baby aveeno is the only cream that I'm not allergic to, I use it on my face. __________________ Last edited by Fuzzybear; Feb 16, 2020 at 10:30 PM.. |
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Grrrrrrr. Why did I take nearly half an hour to make that post. And why do I delete my posts. Am I really so ''wrong''
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I like this a lot! thanks for posting this!
ALL of your posts are fine! It's wonderful to have you out and active with all of us tonight! I am sorry you were reminded of the T' it's all okay though. We are all here together and you can just be you! You are great, just as you are, Fuzzy! Love ya, too! __________________ May we each fully claim the courage to live from our hearts, to allow Love, Faith and Hope to enLighten our paths. |
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#26
Well I think Therapy is different for all people.
No one enters Therapy at a certain age. No ones Therapy is like another Yes some Therapist specialize in things like ptsd, abuse as an adult or as a child. There’s are millions of variables so it just depends on what your going to Therapy for , what goals do you have in mind. For instance you .... I think your female I have no idea of your age Are you a teenager and living with your parents or paternal units as you call them ? You could be married with kids , I don’t know Obviously you have been damaged by people who should protect you whether it be parents or a spouse I think we all take a chance when we met a Therapist , will it be a good fit? will this help or harm me ? So we follow our gut feeling. No Therapist good or bad will expect us to quickly tell all our troubles to them , it takes time to not only feel safe with them and safe enough to share what is almost always painful ?? So everyone needs to determine if possible what we hope to get from going to therapy. Be able to realize our worth, work through past trauma and abuse. How to lean coping skills . Increase our self worth, change habits that are unhealthy, like always expecting the worst , learn how to ask for what we need or want to get from relationships whether it be family, a partner, with friends or work, or recovery from previous therapy. Etc etc etc Somethings horrible from the past don’t need to be worked through, let sleeping dogs alone can be better than to kick one. We have to accept that our T’s will ask tough questions at times. Or maybe we just want someone to just listen to us unload and not respond at all. Like here on PC ? People often say ... I’m just venting no advice wanted. And that’s fine too. So there are all kinds of ways Therapy can help us. __________________ Helping others gets me out of my own head ~ |
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